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And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us… (John 1:14)

This Christmas, the magnitude of those simple words has been washing over me. God came to earth and lived among us as a man.

God, who has no beginning and will have no end, who exists outside time and space, who created the heavens and the earth and set the moon and stars in their place, willingly limited himself for us.

God whose glory is above the heavens and who created all things, who laid the foundations of the earth and told the ocean how far it could come, who commanded the morning and formed the dry land with his hands, became subject to his own creation.

God who needs nothing and gives life to everything, who upholds the universe by the word of his power, who is worshiped by the host of heaven, came to be a servant.

I had always focused on the ultimate sacrifice, the saving work of Christ on the cross. Indeed, that is why he came. But I often overlooked the enormous sacrifice inherent in the incarnation. Just as the crucifixion involved sacrifice and separation from God, so did the incarnation. Jesus enjoyed unending fellowship with the Trinity until he severed that union when he entered humanity. God came to earth as a helpless baby. One of the frailest of all creatures. Dependent on his earthly parents. Unable to take care of his own needs.

Jesus lived on the earth with the same limitations that we do.

This truth strikes deep for me, for I find myself growing more and more dependent on others. I can no longer consistently do the things for myself that I used to do. Sometimes I can easily put on my coat or pick up a glass to drink. But other times those things are impossible and I need to ask for help even to sip my coffee. I find that very difficult, partly out of pride and partly not wanting to trouble other people. View full post »

  • December 16, 2016 - 8:04 am

    Linda Swanekamp - What you wrote is moving, true, grounded, and very deep. I am grateful you were able to write it. May you have a day full of joy regardless of what physical state you are in. I suffer from chronic pain, nothing like yours, but enough to know limitations. Thank you for this message.ReplyCancel

    • December 16, 2016 - 3:02 pm

      Vaneetha - Thank you, Linda. May you have a day full of joy as well.ReplyCancel

  • December 16, 2016 - 8:54 am

    Becki - thank you, dear one…
    beautifully expressed…
    vulnerably real…ReplyCancel

  • December 16, 2016 - 10:13 am

    Veronica - I thank the Lord for your life and how He is glorified in it. It gives me hope to press on just today, for one day. God has encouraged me through you, a fellow christian.ReplyCancel

    • December 16, 2016 - 2:59 pm

      Vaneetha - So glad the Lord used this to encourage you, Veronica!ReplyCancel

  • December 16, 2016 - 12:16 pm

    MIke R - So true. And in this, I find myself thanking God for my affliction. I am reminded of Jacob, a very strong man, who rolled away the stone from the well. Then a divine wrestling match left him limping for the rest of his life, no longer able to depend upon his own strength.

    Thank you holding up the example of Jesus, a man who relied fully upon his Father while limited in the flesh. And now our High Priest. Fully man. Fully God.

    Unlike Christ, I did not go willingly into limitation. But my Shepherd loved me enough to bless me with it, anyway. Thanks be for the active obedience of Christ!ReplyCancel

  • December 16, 2016 - 3:50 pm

    David Kenny - Your dependence on Him is a blessing Vaneetha
    as is your clarity on seeing the cross
    and His resurrection as our focus for the
    love praise and glory our Saviour
    so richly deservesReplyCancel

  • December 16, 2016 - 11:05 pm

    Paula - Vaneetha, this is so good, the kind of insight you one cd only gain thru trial. Light is pouring through you, my friend.ReplyCancel

    • December 17, 2016 - 12:03 pm

      Vaneetha - Thank you so much, Paula. This means a lot coming from you – as your insights and writing have ministered to me so many times.ReplyCancel

  • December 17, 2016 - 10:10 am

    Scott - Thank you Vaneetha. Merry Christmas to you and your family, ScottReplyCancel

  • December 18, 2016 - 1:21 pm

    lily - This reminds me of the 2nd verse of one of my fav carols, written by Christina Rossetti:

    “Our God–heav’n cannot hold him, nor earth sustain,
    Heaven and earth will flee away when he comes to reign,
    But in that bleak mid-winter, a stable-place sufficed
    For the Lord God Almighty, Jesus Christ.”

    Thanks so much for writing. I have you in my feed reader, and always wait to read until I have time to read slowly and savor. Merry Christmas!ReplyCancel

    • December 20, 2016 - 3:16 pm

      Vaneetha - Those are beautiful words, Lily. Thanks so much for sharing them!ReplyCancel

  • December 19, 2016 - 11:36 pm

    Allyson - Precious words from a precious woman whom I admire so much! I’ve gotten together a small group of young women to read your book. I’m so thankful for the ways God has used your words and your suffering for those of us seeking clarity and searching for God in the midst of our own suffering.ReplyCancel

    • December 20, 2016 - 3:15 pm

      Vaneetha - I feel so honored and humbled that you would do that, Allyson. And so grateful God is using the book to encourage others. Thanks so much for letting me know.ReplyCancel

  • December 21, 2016 - 10:55 am

    Arlene - Good morning, dear Vaneetha:
    I am presently reading a book written by Jen Wilkin entitled, “None Like Him.” In her first chapter, she writes about God’s infinitude, that He is boundless, limitless, uncontainable. In reading your article, you write about the incarnation–that God, out of His great love for us, “willingly limited Himself for us.”
    It was a “wow” moment for me! What love and condescension! I also appreciated your comment about God being most glorified in our weakness when we rely on Him for strength. In referring back to Jen Wilkin’s book again, she writes, “When I reach the limit of my strength, I worship the One whose strength never flags. When I reach the limit of my reason, I worship the One whose reason is beyond searching out.” I just think it’s neat how God led me to Jen’s book and your article and the two are like “bookends” of the wonderful truth of the limitless God who willingly limited Himself in the incarnation, and is most glorified when we embrace our own weaknesses and limitations and rest and rely on His strength. May God continue to pour out His all -sufficient grace on you, dear Vaneetha. Thank you so much for being a conduit of God’s grace and blessing. Merry Christmas.

    In Him,
    Arlene G.ReplyCancel

    • December 21, 2016 - 4:18 pm

      Vaneetha - Thank you for writing, Arlene. Love that comparison with Jen Wilkins book. I’ve heard so much about it – I definitely want to read it. Have a wonderful Christmas!ReplyCancel

  • December 29, 2016 - 10:00 pm

    Deborah Arthur - Dear Vaneetha,
    would you consider depression to be a suffering for believers? I am in a dark place right now and so long to have peace and rest for my mind and soul. How do you lean into Jesus?
    I have been blessed by your posts.
    Blessings,
    DeborahReplyCancel

    • December 30, 2016 - 8:30 pm

      Vaneetha - Deborah – I definitely consider depression to be suffering for believers. And I know that it is a most difficult type because when we are depressed, it’s hardest to “lean into Jesus.” But leaning into Jesus to me means reading the Bible even when we don’t feel like it, praying, constantly crying out to God even with our sighs and groans too deep for words. It is trusting that God is in our suffering and looking for him in it rather than believing he is against us.

      I’m so glad you have been blessed by my posts. Praying as I write this that God will fill you with peace and rest for your mind and soul, that you would feel his presence even in the dark, in an breathtaking unmistakable way.ReplyCancel

  • December 30, 2016 - 8:46 am

    Whitney - Thank you for this beautiful post. I have been on a journey of my own. A journey to come to know Jesus Christ more personally and profoundly. It never ceases to amaze me how God works in each of our lives to bring us to know Him. He is real. He lives. He loves us. He wants to be our friend. Thank you!ReplyCancel

    • December 30, 2016 - 8:32 pm

      Vaneetha - Dear Whitney – thank you so much for that great reminder of how much Jesus loves us – personally and profoundly. What a great word to carry with us throughout life.ReplyCancel

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I found these words several weeks ago, and I’ve been carrying them with me ever since.

“There is nothing – no thing, no person, no experience, no thought, no joy or pain – that cannot be harvested and used for nourishment on our journey to God. What I am suggesting here is that everything in your life is a stepping stone to holiness if only you recognize that you have within you the grace to be present to each moment.”

Everything in my life can be a stepping stone to holiness. Nothing excluded. Joy and pain. Peace and turmoil. Fullness and emptiness. People who love and care for me. People who ignore or annoy me. And even people who hurt me.

But all those things don’t automatically foster greater holiness. To see God’s invitation, I need the grace to be present to the moment. I need to pay attention. Notice. Look beneath the surface. Pray. I need to be aware of the emotions bubbling up in me. To understand why I feel unsettled. And I need to ask God what he is showing me about myself.

These questions are important because God is doing something far more important and more lasting IN me than what is happening TO me.

Recently I was frustrated with a friend and felt annoyed at her thoughtlessness over a certain issue. As I was mentally cataloging my list of grievances, I suddenly stopped and pondered why God might have brought this situation into my life. It was a simple question, but the answers revealed more about my heart than hers. My friend’s actions were an opening for God to reveal a layer of sin in my life that I would have otherwise glossed over. As I saw the sin in my response, I was able to confess it to God and repent.

Whenever I feel annoyed or frustrated or angry, perhaps God is inviting me to examine my own heart instead of focusing my attention outward.  Perhaps my irritation is an invitation from the Lord to go deeper. View full post »

  • December 2, 2016 - 9:05 am

    Bobbi - Such true words! I certainly have found them to be the case in my life. And I am grateful to God that He taught, and is still teaching me, these important lessons about Him and about me. Thank you for this post. I see God’s handiwork so clearly in your life.ReplyCancel

    • December 2, 2016 - 1:19 pm

      Vaneetha - Thank you for writing, Bobbi. Isn’t it wonderful the way the Lord continues to teach us!ReplyCancel

  • December 2, 2016 - 10:11 pm

    Kim - This is beautiful yet hits too close to home as I battle relational strife that is taking quite a while to resolve. And I have asked God many times for His purpose in it all and believe I have received an answer or two. Thank you for these words and this Christ-centered perspective.ReplyCancel

    • December 7, 2016 - 6:11 pm

      Vaneetha - Thanks for writing Kim. Relational conflicts can be so very complicated, can’t they? I find I am constantly seeking to be understood more than to understand which makes it harder to hear God and the other person. Praying as I write that the Lord will bring clarity and direction to you.ReplyCancel

  • December 3, 2016 - 1:06 pm

    Effie Darlene Barba - So true and what I find even more amazing is how God can take all my struggles, my frailties, and my failures, wrap them in His Precious hands of grace, and return them as gifts of His Glory. Then, wrapped within His cloaks of righteousness not my own, He takes all my life and returns it as a gift of Grace to those I meet along this journey. This was a song I wrote for Thanksgiving which I thinks reflects that thought

    A Thanksgiving Day Song

    As I look back over all my years
    Amazing Joy or sometimes tears
    Each winding road, an Act of Grace
    That I might seek Your Glorious Face
    And as my life draws nearer to You
    I came to know Your words were True
    Those Words that drew me near your heart
    And bid me stay and ne’er depart
    Chorus:
    Oh let my joy then ever be
    A song of Grace that sets men free
    From all the chains that tightly bind
    Or foolish pride that makes hearts blind
    Thanksgiving would be greater still
    Each day conformed unto Your will
    A truly thankful heart be mine
    When Humbly filled with Joy Divine
    II
    How foolish I at times have been
    My faltering steps and wretched sin
    I searched this world in hopes to find
    A love so true, so sweet and kind
    I did not see the tears You shed
    Or consider that for me You bled
    No greater treasure could ere be mine
    As Your beloved, our hearts entwined
    Chorus:
    Oh let my joy then ever be
    A song of Grace that sets men free
    From all the chains that tightly bind
    Or foolish pride that makes hearts blind
    Thanksgiving would be greater still
    Each day conformed unto Your will
    A truly thankful heart be mine
    When Humbly filled with Joy Divine

    III
    Lord, hold me tight within Your arms
    Tis there I’m safe from all life’s harms
    My head pressed firm upon Your chest
    For just a moment let me rest
    And let me gaze at Your Sweet smile
    As on we walk each winding mile
    My dearest love, You are my King
    It is for You I must now sing

    Chorus:
    Oh let my joy then ever be
    A song of Grace that sets men free
    From all the chains that tightly bind
    Or foolish pride that makes hearts blind
    Thanksgiving would be greater still
    Each day conformed unto Your will
    A truly thankful heart be mine
    When Humbly filled with Joy DivineReplyCancel

  • December 6, 2016 - 8:05 pm

    Dana Lavelle - Thank you for sharing from your heart — it was convicting as well as encouraging. I am going through a season with a trial and needed to read this today.ReplyCancel

    • December 7, 2016 - 6:06 pm

      Vaneetha - So glad this was helpful Dana. Its something I need to remind myself of regularly! Praying as I write this that the Lord would encourage you as you walk through this trial.ReplyCancel

  • December 15, 2016 - 10:36 am

    Sandra Stam - Hi Veneetha,
    I read several of your blog entries and bought your book about suffering b/c I have been in quite significant pain for years as I live with several types of arthritis and it is always active, not giving me any reprieve. Last year, I was diagnosed with a 4.5cm brain tumor and had it surgically removed. When I read about you having questions through the tough parts of your life, I felt like I found someone who understands me. People sometimes look at me like I’m crazy because God has given me the strength and grace for each day and I am able, by His amazing grace, to submit to what He has chosen for my life, mostly because I know He never makes mistakes and that is such a great comfort to me. I’ve ordered the book “the scars that shaped me” and am very much looking forward to reading it! God bless you today for whatever your needs are.ReplyCancel

    • December 15, 2016 - 1:13 pm

      Vaneetha - I’m so sorry for all you’ve endured, Sandra, but so grateful to God for his amazing grace in your life. Thanks for writing!ReplyCancel

  • December 22, 2016 - 10:10 pm

    jacob david - Thanks for this reminder that there is reason for every little thing or major problem we face. God has His plan and purpose for our lives. This article encouraged me. This helps me understand the meaningless problems in mylife. God bless you.ReplyCancel

  • December 25, 2016 - 5:08 pm

    Veronica - Your post was what I needed at this very moment…God is so good. Yes, there are a lot of difficult situations that we must go through but I must let God use them to remove not their sin but mine. Please will you pray for me.ReplyCancel

    • December 26, 2016 - 3:59 pm

      Vaneetha - Love what you said: “there are a lot of difficult situations that we must go through but I must let God use them to remove their sin not mine…” Praying for you as I write this that God will give you everything you need as you walk through the difficult situations in your life.ReplyCancel

  • December 28, 2016 - 1:30 pm

    Sheri Matsumoto - Thank you for expressing what the Lord has been telling me for the past 2 years. I appreciate you sharing what God is teaching you in your journey!ReplyCancel

    • December 28, 2016 - 5:12 pm

      Vaneetha - You are welcome, Sheri. Thank you for writing!ReplyCancel

  • March 9, 2017 - 12:23 pm

    Beatrice - “Everything in my life can be a stepping stone to holiness.” – Indeed, EVERYTHING? God will use everything? Even my sin?..ReplyCancel

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I spent half a decade feeling powerless – physically, emotionally and mentally. But those days taught me to rely on God. Day by day, moment by moment, breath by breath.

I was a single parent, trying to hold life together. My adolescent daughters were struggling, as they felt disillusioned and angry at life. Escalating health problems left me with little energy to go on and some days I would literally collapse in exhaustion.  I needed rest.  Joy. An anchor to hold on to.

I decided to go on a personal retreat to sit with God and pore over the Word. To find encouragement and refreshment in Him. But as I sat with Scripture, encouragement never came.  Reading 2 Chronicles 20, the account of Jehoshaphat facing a great army, I felt a distinct sense of dread. I read: “We are powerless against this great horde that is coming against us. We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you” (2 Chron 20:12).

A great horde was coming. Did that apply to me? If so, who were they? And how should I prepare?

Though the story was familiar, Jehoshaphat’s response still moved me. Instead of consulting advisors and summoning the troops, Jehoshaphat simply appealed to the Lord. He prayed and declared a fast. He didn’t try to prepare. He just trusted God.

God answered his pleas, saying: “Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed at this great horde, for the battle is not yours but God’s.… You will not need to fight in this battle. Stand firm, hold your position and see the salvation of the Lord on your behalf” (2 Chron 20: 15, 17).

I clung to God’s words for Jehoshaphat. I needed to stand firm. I didn’t need a battle plan. I just needed to keep my eyes on the Lord. This was his battle, not mine.  But what was it and when would it begin?

A few weeks after I got home, an unexpected announcement put my world in a tailspin. And then soon afterwards, my arms began failing. Within a few days, I could barely use them. With post-polio, I knew this could happen at some point, but I was not prepared for this. View full post »

  • November 18, 2016 - 11:08 am

    elaine - I too read Ann’s book not once, but twice. I loved when she shared that giving thanks doesn’t come easy, it takes practice. Too often we just want God to do or give us what we believe is necessary and forget to thank Him for what we have right around us. I learned how ungrateful I was when I read 1000 gifts, and realized how much God loved me. You write from the heart and i enjoy reading your blogs, what an encouragement you always are.
    May God continue to bless you with wisdom and insight. He has given you such a gift to write and share with others, what a blessing. Happy Thanksgiving. ElaineReplyCancel

    • November 21, 2016 - 12:35 pm

      Vaneetha - Thanks, Elaine. Giving thanks definitely takes practice- and new eyes! So thankful the Lord is using the blog.ReplyCancel

  • November 18, 2016 - 1:25 pm

    Trudy - I love your transparency, Vaneetha. Your sharing gives me hope. This is such a moving truth – “I didn’t need a battle plan. I just needed to keep my eyes on the Lord. This was his battle, not mine.” I love how Jehoshaphat thanked and praised God even before he saw any evidence of the victory. I need to remember more often that Jesus has already gained the victory for us, even when we feel overwhelmed by troubles. Have a blessed weekend and Thanksgiving! Hugs!ReplyCancel

    • November 21, 2016 - 12:38 pm

      Vaneetha - I love that story of Jehoshaphat so much! Thanks for writing. Happy Thanksgiving!ReplyCancel

  • November 18, 2016 - 1:55 pm

    Sita - Vaneetha, thank you for this word to remind me that God stands with me when all else is falling around me. I only recently discovered your blog and am grateful that you share His story in your story. So blessed. And what a coincidence you should mention Ann Voskamp. I recently went to hear her speak as she was launching her new book here in Toronto! Happy Thanksgiving and hugs!
    SitaReplyCancel

    • November 21, 2016 - 12:39 pm

      Vaneetha - Thanks for writing, Sita. What a great reminder that God stands with us when all else is falling around us.ReplyCancel

  • November 20, 2016 - 9:38 pm

    carol - Thank you Vaneetha, your writing is always an encouragement. With love and prayers, CarolReplyCancel

    • November 21, 2016 - 12:40 pm

      Vaneetha - You are welcome, Carol. Happy Thanksgiving!ReplyCancel

  • November 21, 2016 - 8:29 am

    Danetta Kellar - Dear Vaneetha, This passage has meant so much to me in my life and your story around it today has touched me deeply. Thank you for sharing your manna with me today. What riches God was investing in you during your time of suffering, knowing that one day when He came to withdraw those for others you would willingly give generously! May you have a wonderful Thanksgiving this year, filled with His heart bounty.ReplyCancel

    • November 21, 2016 - 12:42 pm

      Vaneetha - Isn’t that an awesome passage? So thankful the Lord has used Jehoshaphat’s story for both of us. Happy Thanksgiving!ReplyCancel

  • November 22, 2016 - 9:34 am

    PRECIOUS - Thanks Ma for being there,am a great beneficiary of this blog,more of God’s grace upon your live.ReplyCancel

  • December 30, 2016 - 4:22 am

    Usha - Very encouraging to read your blogs. Pondering on giving thanks to our maker. It’s easy to thank him in good times but to give thanks in times of trial’s is what we should be encouraged to do at all times. Thank you for writing.ReplyCancel

    • December 30, 2016 - 8:31 pm

      Vaneetha - So glad the blog is encouraging. I know it is hard for me to give thanks in the difficult times, but I know that’s where I’ve seen the most growth in my life!ReplyCancel

  • February 14, 2017 - 11:45 am

    Benjamin Murray - I stumbled upon your blog because of your sister’s postings on her Facebook page. Her husband was deeply influential in my spiritual formation during seminary. I praise God for continuing to use that family by bringing me to your blog.

    2 Chronicles is a fascinating book. 1&2 Chronicles are the spiritual journals of a broken and disenfranchised people who are trying to figure out where there place in this world, and more importantly, with their Covenant God is! Thanks for showing me just how powerful their journey was.

    I am going to be passing on your ebook to deacons in my congregation. Thank you for your wisdom. May God continue to draw you to Himself.ReplyCancel

    • February 14, 2017 - 4:29 pm

      Vaneetha - Thank you so much for writing. I too have been deeply influenced by my brother-in-law who is such a thoughtful, godly man. I’m reading 2Chronicles right again in my quiet time, and loving it all over again. Much to learn!ReplyCancel

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I was terrified when I first started writing online.

I wasn’t sure how much of my pain I wanted to share publicly. My life felt like a roller coaster and none of my story was neat and tidy. Nothing was tied up with a bow.

My husband had left and I was struggling as a single parent. My body was breaking down as the effects of post-polio syndrome were intensifying. My dreams had been long abandoned and there was little left to hold on to. Yet God was teaching me to hold onto him. I wasn’t sure if my journey would be encouraging or petrifying to other people.

I had been diagnosed with post-polio syndrome several years earlier and was told to give up all of my hobbies immediately. The staff at the polio clinic said I needed to preserve my arms. To ration my strength and energy. To pare my life back. If I didn’t, they said, someone else would be brushing my teeth in ten years.

So I cried. I fought it. I mourned the loss. I argued with myself and with God.

And then I listened. I boxed up my painting and scrapbooking supplies and gave away all my cooking magazines. I wouldn’t need them anymore. Life was reduced to doing the bare minimum while the things that brought me happiness gathered dust in the cupboards of my house.

In those dark days, I asked the Lord why he gave me the desire to create beauty in the first place if he knew I wouldn’t be able to continue with it. I didn’t hear an answer.

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  • November 3, 2016 - 5:33 pm

    AA - What a good news. Can’t wait to read it and offer it. You’ve been such a blessing by writtings. Thank u.ReplyCancel

    • November 4, 2016 - 3:40 pm

      Vaneetha - So thankful that my writing has encouraged you.ReplyCancel

  • November 3, 2016 - 9:52 pm

    Jacob David - Thank you Vaneetha for such an encouraging write up. It helps those who are in need of Gods comfort and strength. Feeling encouraged. May God continue to bless you and use you in His service.ReplyCancel

    • November 4, 2016 - 3:39 pm

      Vaneetha - Thank you for writing Jacob. So glad the Lord use this to encourage you.ReplyCancel

  • November 4, 2016 - 7:13 am

    Sarah - Dear Vaneeth,
    I am really glad you started writing. My favourite thing about your writing is that it points to a real God in a real world. Or specifically, how to relate with God when life hard as it so often is. It also reminds me that God is good even when life is hard.
    Keep writing 🙂ReplyCancel

    • November 4, 2016 - 7:14 am

      Sarah - Sorry I misspelled your name 🙂ReplyCancel

    • November 4, 2016 - 3:35 pm

      Vaneetha - Thanks for your encouragement, Sarah. I’m so glad that the Lord is using my writing. I often write to remind myself, because it’s easy to forget in the midst of struggle, that God is good even when life is hard.ReplyCancel

  • November 4, 2016 - 11:42 am

    erin - I’m already through the first 5 chapters. I was SO happy when I saw you had a book out because your writing has been such a blessing to me.ReplyCancel

    • November 4, 2016 - 3:33 pm

      Vaneetha - Thank you Erin! So glad the Lord is using my writing.ReplyCancel

  • November 4, 2016 - 11:47 am

    Scott - I’m grateful Jesus so clearly called you to write during this time. Will be glad to review the book; hope to read it over the next month or so.ReplyCancel

  • November 4, 2016 - 3:39 pm

    Mike R - Thank you, thank you. I’m looking forward to reading your book. Your writings on this blog have been a strength and encouragement as I also deal with a debilitating illness and all that comes with that. I’ve struggled with what possible use their is for and old and sick believer, as I’ve slowly given up any but the most basic activities. Your writing shows that even when all seems dark God’s strength is not lessened nor his saints without work in his kingdom. I’ve put away all the hobbies as I can’t do them and struggle just with activities of daily living, wondering, “God, I struggle and fail to even hold my life together everyday…what hope do I have to be used by you in my church, in my family, and with my neighbors?” Vaneetha, you give testimony that God is our strength.ReplyCancel

    • November 6, 2016 - 7:02 pm

      Vaneetha - Thank you for writing, Mike. I am so thankful that the Lord is using my writing to encourage you. I am in a season of feeling less useful myself -at least physically- and I’m rediscovering how sufficient God’s grace is in our weakness.ReplyCancel

  • November 4, 2016 - 4:53 pm

    Trudy - Congratulations, Vaneetha. I have placed your book on my Amazon wish list. It hasn’t been long since God led me to your site, but I know your posts do make me feel less alone and do point me to the hope there is in Jesus. Have a blessed weekend! Hugs!ReplyCancel

  • November 15, 2016 - 4:05 am

    Genelle - Thank you for sharing your story. Love this post and the verses. So cool how God restores our brokenness.ReplyCancel

    • November 15, 2016 - 9:22 pm

      Vaneetha - It is amazing how the Lord restores beauty from ashes, isn’t it?ReplyCancel

  • November 17, 2016 - 1:48 am

    Lilly - I, too, have had the situation of having a dream crushed and removed, only to see it realized in a far deeper and more wonderful way than I had ever imagined. I am looking forward to reading your book.ReplyCancel

    • November 17, 2016 - 12:53 pm

      Vaneetha - Oh Lily, thank you for sharing that. It’s amazing to see what God does with our shattered dreams. His ways are so much higher than ours!ReplyCancel

  • November 27, 2016 - 11:15 pm

    loren lee - Many times as I read your entries, God brings me to tears! He is moving people’s hearts through you. Thank you for writing.ReplyCancel

  • December 8, 2016 - 6:42 pm

    Priscila Acuña - Hi!
    Is there anyway i can buy the digital version of the book?
    Like iBooks or something?
    Thank you!ReplyCancel

    • December 10, 2016 - 3:12 pm

      Vaneetha - You can get a kindle version from Amazon but not sure about ibooks. Hope that works!ReplyCancel

  • December 15, 2016 - 6:33 am

    Sally Craig - I have just viewed your short video and look forward to reading your book…..trying to accept my mum has been cruel to me all my life and that she is incapable of change so I keep being told….I think she has Narcisstic personality disorder ……all the advice seems to be I no longer see her….heartbroken…I need to hear God’s voice clearly.Thanks for the encouragement of “immanuel”Gid is with us in the midst of trials. He may not take us out but will give Grace to go on.ReplyCancel

    • December 15, 2016 - 1:16 pm

      Vaneetha - Oh Sally, I’m sure these struggles with your mother are heartbreaking. Praying as I write that God will give you wisdom and grace and clarity and an unmistakable sense of his presence as you move forward.ReplyCancel

  • January 20, 2017 - 6:30 am

    Tash - Hi Veneetha,

    Yesterday I subscribed to a newsletter and the first one arrived today. The title was “When the answer is no”. My marriage has been a crumbling mess since it began 6 years ago. My husband was verbally abusive and I didnt fair much better. I convinced myself that he failed me, that as a result of the abusive behaviour, my own bad behaviour was justified. He told me in November that he wants out and we are currently planning on the move out. I feel like my life is in shambles. There are days where I trust God completely, and then, days like today where the state of my life leaves me gasping for air. I googled you after receiving the newsletter and your story gives me so much hope. That somehow in this mess, God will give me beauty for my ashes…thank you.ReplyCancel

    • January 20, 2017 - 9:48 am

      Vaneetha - Oh Tash, I’m so sorry for all that you are going through. Praying as I write this that God will give you wisdom and direction and peace as you walk with him through this difficult time. Also praying that you and your husband will both rely on God for wisdom as you make decisions about the future.ReplyCancel

  • January 29, 2017 - 11:57 am

    Sandy - Someone on Piper’s site wrote a quote from your book that caught my attention so I investigated your book, bought it. Just received it in the mail today. I sat down, opened it up in the middle, read one small section – God spoke to me. The widow of Zaraphath…but I like you want to be self sufficient, independent and strong. Though God proves to me over and over that He is my Provider, I still fail this lesson. (I have chronic illness since 2002.) Thank you Vaneetha for writing this clearly anointed book. I know it will make a difference in my walk, and many others’ as well.ReplyCancel

    • January 29, 2017 - 1:55 pm

      Vaneetha - Thanks so much for writing, Sandy. I’m grateful God is using this book – it makes it all worthwhile hearing how God has used my suffering to encourage others. The chapter you referenced is one I need to remind myself of frequently – being dependent on God is a blessing. Always.ReplyCancel

  • February 16, 2017 - 10:26 am

    Esther - Your life is an encouragement to me, & I believe, to many others- number of which you would never imagine. Thank God for His work in your life & thank you very much for sharing your lifeReplyCancel

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